Intercourse with my long-term boyfriend was getting stale — till I began doing OnlyFans

• Tegan-Leigh Gray, 25, from the UK, creates OnlyFans content material alone and in addition along with her boyfriend.
• Creating sexual content material has helped her and her accomplice to be extra experimental.
• That is Tegan-Leigh Gray’s story, as instructed to Amber Middleton.

This as-told-to essay is predicated on a dialog with Tegan-Leigh Gray. It has been edited for size and readability.

My accomplice and I had been collectively for 5 years and we might gotten right into a sample of getting the identical sorts of intercourse. We might go to work, come residence, and have the type of intercourse the place you match it in 10 minutes earlier than dinner. 

However that every one modified seven months in the past after I made an OnlyFans account. 

I began by simply promoting photos of myself in my lingerie, after which added topless and nude images, too. As I acquired extra assured, I began doing customized content material for subscribers, like movies the place I would use intercourse toys.

Creating this content material has helped me to be extra experimental in my intercourse life exterior of OnlyFans. 

I check out requests from subscribers with my boyfriend

I will say to my accomplice: “My subscriber desires me to do this and I’ve by no means completed it earlier than, so let’s strive it first.” 

We have had a number of firsts since I began OnlyFans: we might by no means tried anal till we examined it out for content material. This was thrilling to movie, it was enjoyable to do, and it wasn’t scary as a result of I belief my accomplice. 

Filming it was a little bit of a efficiency: we selected one of the best angle and place for viewers, so we most likely would have completed it in a different way if we weren’t filming.

However attempting anal helped us escape of that rut we have been in.

Attempting new intercourse acts has additionally helped me really feel extra assured in my intercourse life. I am a basic submissive however a number of males on OnlyFans need me to be dominant, so I’ve needed to be taught to experiment and attempt to match that function. 

I’ve introduced that new aspect into intercourse with my boyfriend, and it is helped us really feel extra snug round one another, perceive one another’s boundaries higher, and discover new issues that we each get pleasure from.

Seven months into doing OnlyFans, we now create intercourse content material collectively, together with full-sex and anal movies. I promote them on the location and pay him.

I made nearly $3,000 in my first month on OnlyFans

My accomplice wasn’t at all times so open, although.

Lengthy earlier than I began OnlyFans, I posted images of myself in lingerie on Instagram. I at all times stated it was to point out off my tattoos, however it was primarily simply photos of my ass. 

My boyfriend was by no means over the moon in regards to the content material I posted on Instagram, however he would not inform me what I can and might’t do, and I’ve at all times been lively on that platform in addition to Tumblr and TikTok. It is the very first thing I examine after I get up.

Then final summer time I began posting movies on TikTok. Once more, it was partly to point out off my tattoos however I additionally appreciated sharing the ass photos. By November I had 50,000 followers. 

I spotted I could possibly be making a living, so I began wanting into OnlyFans and noticed how different creators like Rebecca Goodwin, who has 2.1 million likes on OnlyFans, have been doing it. I needed to see what the final vibe was as a result of I did not wish to do one thing that will make me really feel uncomfortable.

I instructed my boyfriend in regards to the severe cash that could possibly be made if I arrange an OnlyFans account. At first he did not see the purpose and did not perceive why individuals would pay when there’s a lot free porn on the market.

I did not wish to begin an account till he was snug with it, however ultimately he instructed me to go for it.

I ended up making nearly $3,000 in a month, which was greater than my boyfriend or I had ever made. His response was: “Oh shit!”

Now I’ve a menu the place I supply companies together with “dick rankings” and “jerk off directions.” I am within the high 2.2% of OnlyFans creators, which implies I am making extra money than most individuals on the location.

The blurring of my work and private life could be difficult 

Typically I wrestle with the blurring of intercourse for content material and my private life, and I am certain my accomplice would agree.

I will spend hours getting dressed up, wanting horny, and making and modifying my solo movies. My boyfriend shall be watching from the opposite aspect of the room getting all turned on.

As soon as I’ve completed he’ll say “let’s have intercourse,” however I am not within the temper after every thing I’ve simply been doing with a intercourse toy. I attempt to put time apart for us to be collectively however it’s one thing I am nonetheless studying.

Even once we end filming collectively, we do not cease filming and have intercourse —we cease filming and get takeout.

However my accomplice’s been supportive all through the entire course of, particularly when he realized he did not must work as a result of I used to be making a lot cash.

I’ve instructed everybody I do OnlyFans so no-one can blackmail me

I have been actually open and trustworthy with everybody else, too. I instructed my mother that I used to be making movies with my boyfriend and he or she is aware of precisely what which means. My dad is aware of, too. I instructed everybody so nobody might threaten me by saying they’d share my content material with members of the family.

I instructed my former work colleagues and so they have been simply happy that I am doing so properly and that I am completely satisfied. The one negativity I obtain is from strangers on-line with no profile image.

Aside from that, it has been a constructive expertise and my subscribers are actually beautiful, too.

Having these subscribers has allowed me to do OnlyFans full-time since ending faculty just lately. It is given me a lot freedom and it is permitting me to go travelling later this yr with my accomplice.

Earlier than this, I used to be working in a pub. It was early mornings, late nights, and 12-plus hour shifts. And after I put within the additional effort, I wasn’t getting something additional again — it might simply profit my bosses.

However doing OnlyFans, I’m my very own boss. No matter I make it is for me and I can say “I did that, go me.”